
What makes a marriage last?
Although John and Elizabeth had significant hardships during their married
life, they were together for 45 "blissful" years, reared nine
children, made a home in the wilderness, and left a legacy that in which
their descendents may take great pride.

I speculate that this is Mary Boehlen, born 1879.
Not much is known about Mary other than she joined a convent and became a
nun. She may have served the faithful in the small German Catholic
community of Westphalia, Iowa.

Peter Josef Neumes was Elizabeth's father.
He lived with them in his later years. Peter was born in
Germany in 1822 and married Frances (Franziska) Maria Schmidt
about 1848. Frances died in 1889. Peter died in 1907
at the age of 85 Peter is buried in St. Mary's Cemetery,
Little Black, Wisconsin..
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John and Elizabeth shared a long and probably difficult
life together. John was approximately 8 years older than
Elizabeth. He was 32 and Elizabeth 24 at the time of their wedding
in January 1874. Ten months later Elizabeth gave birth to Peter, the
first of nine children. Peter was followed by three daughters,
Margaret (known as Maggie), Agnes (named after Elizabeth's sister), and
Mary.
At 41, a middle-aged John Boehlen, relocated his family
to Taylor County Wisconsin. The children were 8, 7, 5 and 3.
Thomas was born in February 1882 and probably was an infant during the
relocation. Peter would only live 26 years, but if he was physically
able at 8 years old, he would have helped his father clear the dense
forest that must have covered the "Boehlen Place" in Taylor
County.
John and Elizabeth would have four more children,
Vincent 1885, Elizabeth 1888, Michael 1891 and Joseph 1893. Joseph
was to die as a toddler at the age of two. Daughters Elizabeth and
Mary joined the convent. Peter passed away in 1901. Vince and
Mike would marry sisters, Rosa and (Miline) Mildred Barbeau. Thomas
remained on the Boehlen farm with his parents. After both had died,
he married Louise Kelnhofer. Maggie married Emil Will and Agnes
married John Riegert.
John Boehlen lead a difficult
life. He was probably in his early-60s when this photograph
was taken. You can see the wear of the years on his
face. John had a minor deformity on his left hand. He
had two thumbs. If you look closely at the photo above, you
can see the additional digit protruding from the wrist area.
John is buried in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Stetsonville, Wisconsin.
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Elizabeth Boehlen shared John's hard
life. Compare this photo with the family portrait taken less than
10 years earlier. Her obituary proudly states, "As one of our pioneers she has done her part in making a home out of a wilderness and through it all has always held the respect of all."
Elizabeth is buried next to John in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Stetsonville,
Wisconsin.
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Thomas Boehlen remained on the Boehlen
farm. He continued to work the farm after his father's death
in 1919 and cared for his mother's well being until she died in
1924. He was a very soft spoken and kind man. His slim
figure towered over most people standing well over six feet.
He married Louise Kelnhofer after his mother's death and raised
five children, Florina, Orvilla, John, Germain, and Francis.
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Vincent Boehlen was born in 1885. At the
age of 27, he married Rosa Barbeau in 1912. They had four
children before Rosa died of influenza in 1920. Vincent
never remarried. He left the farm life for a house in the
City of Medford. He was a factory worker at Hurds and later
a brewery worker in Milwaukee at Millers Brewery. He loved
cigars and bowling. He died in Glenview Illinois in
1967. Vincent is buried next to Rosa in Sacred Heart
Cemetery, Stetsonville, Wisconsin.
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Michael Boehlen was the youngest of the Boehlen
boys who survived childhood. At 23 (1914) he married Mildred
Barbeau, the 17 year sister of his sister-in-law Rosa. They
were married for 56 years until his death in 1971. The
raised four children, Vincent, Michael, Dorothy and Dolores.
Mike was a very kind man of shorter stature. He smoked
a pipe. Mildred and Mike lived
in Fond du Lac, Milwaukee, on the farm in Hustisford and finally
in Nenno, Wisconsin. Both are buried at Sts. Peter & Paul
Cemetery in Nenno.
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I included an enlargement of this puppy, most
likely a family pet. I found it interesting that a dog was
included in both the formal family portrait and the more candid
setting above. My guess is that the Boehlen family loved
animals. Do you and your children love animals? Maybe
its in the genes.
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